Serious relationship help...?

ok so my girlfriend of just over 8 months is happy where we are in our relationship...reffering to the things weve done with eachother (sexually). Shes jerked me off but thats it...ive felt her up but waist down...nothin...now im not in any way looking to have sex....Im not ready for That yet...but she says the next thing to do to me...she wont do because the thought of doing it groses her out...so essentially what it looks like is that we're not going to try anything new for over a year...she wont let me in her pants and doesnt look like its going to....the thought of only getting what she does to me is extremly aggrivating...Because of the time frame...Advice Please? :(